Study Ireland – Stories & Guides from International Students

Tips and Tricks for Making Deeper Connections in Your Daily Conversations

Sick of asking people where they’re from and what their major is? Conversations feeling dull and impersonal? It’s likely to happen, especially when living in a new country with a lack of familiarity and community off the bat. But it doesn’t have to be this way. Have memorable conversations and make lasting relationships using these seven questions.

Question 1: Why did you choose the University of Limerick?

Everyone’s answer to this question tends to vary. It’s personal and specific, and provides the perfect opportunity to relate or discover something new. You could be surprised about how many unexpected paths can lead people to the same front door.

Question 2: What is your favorite local spot and why?

Whether it’s a hidden coffee shop, a walk along the Shannon River, or a study spot they swear by, this question doubles as a free travel guide and a window into someone’s personality.

Question 3: What’s the biggest culture shock you’ve experienced since arriving?

This tends to get people laughing or nodding furiously. Swapping culture shock stories is an instant bonding experience as well as a way to learn something new about each others habits.

Question 4: What’s one thing you wish you’d packed, and one thing you definitely didn’t need?

It’s light-hearted, it’s relatable, and it’s surprisingly revealing.

Bonus: you might get some great packing advice for your next trip.

Question 5: If you could only eat one Irish food for the rest of your life, what would it be?

Cheese and onion Taytos? A good Black Pudding? Fish and chips? Food opinions tend to be passionate and a surprisingly great conversation starter.

Question 6: What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve done since moving here?

This question steers people away from the beaten path of responses. It invites them to share their best stories and gives you a great way to tell what kind of person you’re talking to.

Question 7: What’s one thing studying abroad has taught you about yourself?

This question invites a real, meaningful answer that you’ll both remember long after the semester ends.

I invite you to try these out and let us know of any questions you yourself enjoy asking people to get to know them better!